I'm having the same problem, but with BDO. What nodes you connecting to? I'm connecting to US West and it ain't working at all. It feels like my ping increases to 1k+.

but now i cant even log in through launcher.. my launcher is not recieving any connection though.. so i cant even log in into game..

Please confirm that How to check the basic functionality works fine on your environment. It's a first thing you should test.

sokay, i solved it by using TCP instead of UDP.. well there is no solid guide indeed.. RIP, but its working awesomely now..